2022-02-12 19:40
聯合報 記者李姿瑩/台北即時報導
理科先生悲傷離開台灣 喊話兒子「會努力爭取你」

來台灣和理科太太處理離婚事宜的理科先生John,今天發文透露自己準備返回美國。雖然之後還會再來台灣,但他還是忍不住對兒子和前妻喊話,希望不要再被曲解本意。
John想告訴兒子,「我會努力爭取你,但是我絕不會強迫你在父母之間作選擇」、「如果可以我也希望帶你回美國」。而給前妻理科太太的訊息中,除了感謝過往之情,疑似也話中有話:「許多不為人知的事我想談,雖然我不知道未來會如何發展,但我會持續耕耘也會繼續往前走。」
John全文如下:
帶著很悲傷的心情,我即將離開台灣。回到美國把工作上的責任處理到一個段落,我很快會再回來。雖然我不太會讀中文,但是原來公眾的批判,還有那些與事實不符的指控所帶來的傷害,比我想像中還要大很多。
Miles,
不知道你長到多大以後會讀到這篇。擁有你在我的生命,是這一生中最美好的事。我感到傷心你也必須一同經歷這件事。我會努力爭取你,但是我絕不會強迫你在父母之間作選擇。不管發生什麼事,我都會在你身邊,並尊重你是一個獨立的個體。
一段時間不能見到你將會是一件艱難的事。如果可以我也希望能帶你回到美國,不過目前情況使然,也只能如此。
Evelyn,
要把我的感受付諸文字是如此困難。幾個月前你曾說,未來如果Miles上網搜尋我們的名字時,他應當只看到正面的訊息,而我希望我們之後能夠持續維持這樣的心態。畢竟,過去我們曾有共識,也曾攜手共同經營我們的家庭。而我依然感謝過去那幾年單純的日子,以及我們曾相愛的時光。
我也想感謝每一個曾經對我說過良善的話,以及支持我走到這邊的人。這對我來說有非常重要的意義。有許多不為人知的事我想談,雖然我不知道未來會如何發展,但我會持續耕耘也會繼續往前走。婚姻可以是如此地艱難,但是我會努力讓Mile感受到他父親的愛,因為愛能克服一切。
With sadness I’m leaving Taiwan for now, but I will come back as soon as I take care of work responsibilities. I can’t really read Chinese, but false accusations still hurt more than I thought they would.
Miles, not sure when you’ll be old enough to see this, but having you in my life is the best thing that ever happened to me. It’s tragic you are going through this too. I will fight for you, but I won’t force you to choose between your parents. No matter what happens, I’m always on your side and respect your individuality.
It’ll be hard not to see you for a while, if I could take you back to America I would, but circumstances are what they are now.
Evelyn, hard to put my feelings into words, but many months ago you told me in the future Miles should only see positive things in the news when he searches for our names online. I’m hoping there’s still a future where that’s possible and we both maintain that mindset. At some point in the past we were on the same page and worked to accomplish things for our family. I still appreciate the good years together when things were simple and we were happily in love.
I also wanted to thank everyone who has said kind words and supported me this far. It does mean a lot to me. There’s many behind the scene details I want to talk about,I don’t know what the future holds, but I will dig deep and keep pushing forward. Marriage can be tough, but I will do what I can to give Miles a loving father.
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